Mindset and The Sexy Woman

Sexiness is within every woman.

What if I told you sexiness had nothing to do with what you wear. What if I told you that it has nothing to do with makeup (or how you do that famed winged eyeliner or sultry red lip). Most certainly nothing to do with the clothes you are wearing. It has everything to do with attitude, confidence, and perception.

Sexy clothing, complementary makeup, fragrance, and hair surely can improve a woman’s sex appeal and desirability. However, that is not where it starts.

Let me explain what I mean…

It all begins with your mindset and what you truly believe about yourself. Digging deeper, I don’t mean what you say to others about yourself, but what you truly believe when you are alone, naked and staring into the mirror. Are you hyper focused on your perceived “imperfections” and “flaws”, that every human possesses? Or, are you able to look at yourself and see the whole picture? Focusing on the true beauty that each woman (YOU) possesses, allowing you to be free.

Positive mindsets to consider instead of negative self-talk:

When you think this…Try this instead…

I’m fat → I am working on improving my health and my body will change for the better.